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[lylith_st]

My 29 years old sister is finally moving out from our house to live on her own. One of the flats my grandfather have for rent was free and she decided that she liked it. It's just next to our house, I can see her terrace from mine, so it's not like she's that far away, duh. She and my mother are driving me insane will all the cleaning, painting the walls and the new furniture, mostly because my mom is always telling my sister what furniture will be better and my sister says that she had another thing in mind, yada yada yada...

I just decided to let my sister alone, it's her house, so she have the right to do whatever she wants. She wants a wall of the living room lemon green? Fine with me (It's my favourite color and looks nice), she wants the wall of her bedroom dark purple? Go with it if it makes you happy! What annoys me is not my sister but my mom, who's now asking me why I don't have a boyfriend. I told her that my sister never had one either and she's older than me, and her answer was that she at least was moving and having a life, and my mom joked about me needing another friends to take me out and help me to find a man (nearly all my -women- friends have a boyfriend), I knwo that she was jsut joking, but still...

Thanks mom for make me remember that I have no life at all...argh.

And changing the subject, yesterday I dreamed about my dad again. I usually don't like it but it wasn't that bad this time. He never told me to go out to find a boyfriend at all. This 10 of May will make a year.

Comments

[nfr.livejournal.com]

Me n'alegro que la teva germana vulgui i pugui independitzar-se! ^^ I millor si està a prop de casa! ;)

La teva mare està preocupada per tu si t'ha dit això del nòvio, però, eh!, que ser soltera també està bé, no? (no sé si ho dic per consolar-me... XDDDD). Ma mare és tot el contrari, sempre em diu: "Tu sí que estàs bé sense nòvio!" Què creus que és millor? XDDDDD A més, sense nòvio també es té una VIDA! ¬¬++++

Em sap molt de greu que t'ho passis tan malament amb això del teu pare, però és normal perquè te l'estimaves moooooolt (cosa que no puc dir del meu i també és trist). Ànims! A poc a poc ho aniràs superant! Temps al temps! *hugs a looooooooooooooot*

[lylith-st.livejournal.com]

Ja era hora, que no hi ha qui l'aguanti XD

Pffff no u fa massa pero quan si possa es més plasta D: jo rpefereixo estar com estic >_>

Jjaja quina sort de mare XD

Ja..es aixi la cosa, pero no si pot fer re. em sap greu lod e ton apre tb ./

*petooooooons*

[anesidorian.livejournal.com]

Aaargh, I hate it when parents do that D: I get it all the time from mine. My sister and brother, who are both three years younger than me, are both in long-term relationships. I'm still single, even though I have a guy I like, and my parents are like "WHY DON'T YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND YET?" and I'm like ".... DDD: I-I'm sorry?"

*hugs* I hope you feel better~ ♥

[lylith-st.livejournal.com]

My younger cousin have a girlfriend too and my grandparent are always: And you? and you?

me: D:< me nothing!!!! tsh, family...

*hugs back* thanks~♥

[random-angelic.livejournal.com]

I'm starting to think I'm the only one of my friends who's parents aren't nagging her about finding a guy.

I don't get it. You have friends, you have a job, you have hobbies, etc., etc. How do you not have a life? And what's the big deal about dating and finding a man anyway?

[lylith-st.livejournal.com]

You're lucky then.

Well, the think is that I don't have a real job. I work as a freelance illustrator when I can, and I work on a shop on weekends, but I'm trying to find a job of my career. I'm graduated in Advertisement and Public Relations, but it's nearly impossible to find a job on my country now :/

I'm pretty happy as single, trust me. A man is not ogign to solve anythign.

[random-angelic.livejournal.com]

I think it might have something to do with my brother getting married and giving them grandkids before my sister and I were even old enough to date....

The shop thing sounds like a real job to me, but I think you mean something full time, right? Anyway, good luck in finding something! I hope it works out.

Yeah, how could a boyfriend solve your problems?

[lylith-st.livejournal.com]

O_o...good? My mom wants grandkids too, i'm sure, but she's not bothering me about that, thanks to good.

Yes, full time :/

THANKS dear! <3

[johanirae.livejournal.com]

ARGH. THE FAMILY INQUISITION ON BOYFRIENDS D:

Sorry you're facing that hon! Dun worry, just a phase. Nod and mumble everytime she asks you about it and hope it'll past soon

[lylith-st.livejournal.com]

IT GOT ME! HELP PLEASE HELP!!!!! YOU KNOW HOW BAD IT IS! D:!!!!

>_> gezz...family. You're right :3

Is that tony stark? :D

[wombat-hug.livejournal.com]

This is also issue in my family :D "Where is my boyfrien"d and "why I don't find a nice man?" My mom is saying that "We have a new guy in the work. He is single," me: "Well let him be single. I don't care," And then we start fighting again.

My brother thinks I'm gay. XD He is asking "Are you lesbian?" "What!? No. Should I be,?"

And my Granny is calling me: "One of those," I have no idea what "Those" is. But I'm one :D

So love. You are not alone. *big hug*

[felinerose.livejournal.com]

But I remember you writing about your plans to move out to your friend, right? So it's not like you couldn't move out. You just choose not to. ;) And as long as you're happy it doesn't matter that your mother think you are worse than your sister, or something. :)

[lylith-st.livejournal.com]

Yes but that time was..different ^^' And I don't really want to leave my mom alone now :/ That's true.

Thanks darling your comment cheered me up ^__^

[bluespikey.livejournal.com]

If it helps any I don't have a boyfriend.

[lylith-st.livejournal.com]

:|

You and me together bb!

[bluespikey.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I don't know what is the old idea of having to have a man. It will happen when it happens. You don't plan on those things.